the other day, i was lamenting and expressing my disappointment towards a friend to my significant other. the person whom i considered a friend, was not the person i hope she would be. she frustrated me with her 'couldn't care less' attitude which has really put me into trouble and whats worse, i had to shoulder the consequences of her inconsiderate,thoughtless and irresponsible attitude alone.


listening patiently, he just looked at me,nodding once in a while, and giving me minimal encouragements, up to the stage where in between my catharsis, i started to wonder if i was making sense to him. so, i stopped whining. he simply jestered, 'about time you find a new friend..she's not a friend..'


[but i didn't find her...she found me........]

people will upset us, and disappoint us, and holding on to anger will only take away the energy that we need in order to produce the desired results that we seek out of life!